I have a lot of sisters. And I do mean a lot. For the most part it’s all love. We don’t all talk to one another each day, but we all love one another and as far as the kids are concerned we unashamedly spoil the hell out of our nieces and nephews! There is however one sister. There’s no other way to say it, SHE’S A USER! I have literally not had a decent conversation with her since 2010….. 7 YEARS AGO. We spoke briefly in 2012, and I do mean brief, and it was very awkward. And why else would any family members have a falling out????? MONEY! She borrowed money and refused to pay it back. To be perfectly honest it was never the money to me, it was always the principle. She borrowed $500 from me and swore she couldn’t afford to return it however she managed to purchase a 300K house, a new Volvo and other lavish items. The last straw for me however is when she stopped speaking to my mother because after sending her over 10K in a year’s time my mom said enough was enough and cut her off. Her daughter then cut her off.
Recently, I was in her parts of the country and decided that I should reach out. Seeing as I don’t have her number or address I reached out to one of my little sisters who does and told her that I was near our oldest sister’s house and that I was going to step out on faith and reach out. I then told her to pass her my number, and my husband’s number and let her know that she’s more than welcomed to meet her niece and see how big her nephew has gotten. My sister, being the comedian replied with, “You stepping out on faith with the wrong bitch, but OKAY”.
Later that evening my little sister texted me back and said our older sister was out of town, (please see the text traffic below lmao). We both kinda figured that that was untrue, but hey, what can you do????
And that’s the point of this post, what can you do? There are going to be so many situation where you’re dealing with family and they drive you absolutely damn crazy. They lie. They accuse. They play victim. The villainize you. Sometimes, they simply decide they do not want to deal with you or your children at all. What do you do??? Look around and take inventory of all the people that you do have for starters! I have sisters whom I love with every breath in my body, but still some how they love me more. I have friends who have become my family. And while ideally you’d love all of your family to be close knit life isn’t perfect.
So I hope my sister enjoys being ‘out of town’. I hope she’s happy, successful and loved by all of whom she’s in town for, because though she is missed, me and mines are doing just fine…….
Look at this shit lmao………